November 03, 2007
How Do You Feel If Your Wife Have Already Have Sex Before You?
I was chatting with one of my close friend last night and we talked about marriage.
Most of our close friend are getting married,have been married and planning to get marry.
As we talk all along,both of us come out with reason to get married.I dont have much (for now) but he felt that he wants to get hitch soon.Then the topic come out about how is most Malay's nowadays are ashamed that they are still remain a virgin (menaing they never have sex,doing on your own doesnt count,hehe)
Heh,this is a sensitive topic to tackle because it involve a lot of different kind of views.
As a Muslim living in a country where Islam is the officials religion,how can a mentality of being ashamed of being a virgin is something to be scared of?We should be proud of being a virgin.Nowadays it's not shocking to learn that school student (12-17 years old) are actively seeking sex.We have heard a case about a girl who just want to have sex because of peer pressure and she's only 16 years age.
Where does this mentality come from?
the answer is right in front of your eyes.The effects of globalization.The influence of West teen drama's where teenagers (in the drama) actively embrace the culture of sex first,marry later.How to prevent this from spreading?
There's no way to prevent this from spreading if we,Malay,stays the same and join in the culture!
The only way to prevent this is to go back and be ourself.Be scared of Allah and be scared of the Judgment Day.Girls,ask yourself this first before you have sex with your boyfriend..."Is he honest?Will he marry me?If he cannot pull of before orgasm and I get pregnant,what will he do?What if he left me?"
Malay girls nowadays are having sex just for the sake of not wanting to be alone without a boyfriend.
Keep your pussy for your husband.Good girl get good man and vice versa.
You will be rewarded at the end.God is fair.